St. Louis Divorce Mediation

Alternative Resolutions to Divorce in Missouri

Divorces can be costly, time-consuming, acrimonious affairs, but they do not always have to be. At Kallen Law Firm, LLC, our St. Louis divorce mediation lawyers know that mediation allows divorcing couples to work with a neutral third-party to resolve their legal disputes and set the terms of their divorce in a fair and equal way. Mediation allows you to put your marriage behind you, while saving you time, expense, and the emotional toll of a drawn-out legal battle.

Ready to start your divorce mediation? Contact us at (314) 441-7793 for a free consultation and learn how we can help you navigate the process smoothly.

What are the Advantages of Divorce Mediation in Missouri?

One of the key advantages of divorce mediation is that it allows you to stay in control of your divorce.

It offers a number of advantages, such as:

• Working together to solve issues of child support, custody and visitation, and property disputes
• Providing a relaxed atmosphere where parties can exchange information openly and honestly
• Saving time and money because it requires no court battle
• Offering faster decisions than traditional courtroom divorces

Is Mediation Binding?

In traditional divorce proceedings, issues that are unresolved are taken before a judge, who makes a final, legally binding decision on each individual issue. With divorce mediation, the entirety of the divorce case is considered and compromises are offered through negotiation. In many cases, negotiation and mediation leads to a more favorable solution because it considers all of the disputed areas as part of the same negotiation process.

Mediation is non-binding, and if no agreement can be reached, the case can still proceed to traditional divorce litigation. You can turn to our St. Louis divorce mediation lawyers to help you through every step of the process, whether the path takes you to mediation or traditional divorce.

The Process of Divorce Mediation

Divorce mediation is a structured process designed to help divorcing couples reach a mutual agreement without the need for a lengthy court battle. Here's an overview of the typical steps involved:

• Initial Consultation:

  • Both parties meet with a mediator to discuss the divorce and determine if mediation is a good fit. This is usually a neutral, confidential meeting.
  • Each party may also bring their attorney for legal advice, but the mediator’s role is to remain impartial.

• Mediation Sessions:

  • Mediation typically involves multiple sessions, depending on the complexity of the issues.
  • The mediator helps the couple communicate, discuss the issues at hand, and find common ground. The goal is to reach agreements on all matters, such as property division, alimony, child custody, and support.
  • If an agreement is reached on all issues, the mediator drafts a memorandum of understanding or a settlement agreement for both parties to review.

• Final Agreement:

  • Once both parties have agreed on all terms, the mediator prepares the final settlement document.
  • The settlement is then presented to the court for approval. After the judge signs off on the agreement, it becomes legally binding.

What to Expect During Mediation Sessions

Mediation sessions offer a relaxed environment where both parties have the opportunity to voice their concerns. Here's what to expect:

• The mediator sets the ground rules for communication and ensures a balanced discussion.
• Each party has a chance to share their perspective and negotiate solutions.
• The mediator facilitates the conversation but does not make decisions. Instead, they help both parties find mutually agreeable solutions.

The Role of Attorneys in Mediation

Attorneys play a crucial role during divorce mediation:

• Representation: Attorneys can attend the mediation sessions to represent their client’s interests and provide legal guidance.
• Advice: They help ensure that any agreements made during mediation are fair and legally sound.
• Reviewing Agreements: Attorneys can review the final settlement before it’s submitted to the court to ensure their client's rights are protected.

Mediation vs. Litigation: Which Is Right for You?

When facing divorce, couples have two primary options: mediation or litigation. Here's a comparison of the two:

• Mediation:

  • Pros: Less time-consuming, more cost-effective, and allows for more control over the outcome.
  • Cons: It requires both parties to cooperate and compromise; it might not work if there’s a significant power imbalance.

• Litigation:

  • Pros: A judge makes the final decision, which may be necessary for cases involving significant conflict or abuse.
  • Cons: Time-consuming, expensive, and can create more emotional strain for all parties involved.

When to Consider Litigation

While mediation is a great option for many, some situations may require litigation:

• Cases involving domestic violence or abuse.
• Complex cases with high-value assets that are difficult to divide.
• Situations where one party is uncooperative or refuses to compromise.

How Divorce Mediation Can Help With Child Custody and Support

Divorce mediation can be particularly effective for resolving child-related issues:

• Mediation and Child Custody: Mediation allows both parents to discuss and agree on custody arrangements that best suit their child’s needs. This approach can reduce conflict and create a more stable co-parenting relationship.

• Creating a Parenting Plan: During mediation, parents can work together to create a parenting plan that details custody schedules, visitation, and decision-making responsibilities. This plan focuses on what is in the best interest of the child, promoting cooperation and stability.

Mediation allows parents to craft a customized, workable plan for their children without the need for lengthy court battles.

What if You Cannot Agree on All Terms During Mediation?

In traditional divorce litigation, any issues that are not agreed upon will be placed before a judge, who will make a final, legally binding decision. The judge's decision is final and can only be changed through an appeals process, making this process less predictable and more time-consuming than more amicable divorce methods.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

• What are the costs of divorce mediation?
  Divorce mediation is generally more affordable than traditional litigation. The cost can vary depending on the mediator's rates and the complexity of your case, but it’s usually a fraction of the cost of going to trial.
• Can I still go to court if mediation doesn’t work?
  Yes, if mediation doesn’t result in an agreement, you can proceed to litigation. Mediation is a voluntary process, and if you can’t reach a settlement, the case can be taken to court where a judge will make the final decision.
• How long does the mediation process take?
  The duration of divorce mediation depends on the complexity of the issues being discussed and how cooperative both parties are. On average, mediation can take a few weeks to a few months to complete.
• Do I need a lawyer for divorce mediation?
  While having a lawyer is not required for mediation, it’s highly recommended. Your attorney can help protect your legal rights, advise you during the process, and review any agreements made during mediation to ensure they are in your best interest.
• Is the mediator allowed to give legal advice?
  No, the mediator is a neutral third party and cannot provide legal advice. However, they will guide you and your spouse through the process and help facilitate communication. It’s always a good idea to have your attorney present to ensure you understand your legal rights.
• Can divorce mediation address child custody and visitation?
  Yes, mediation is often used to resolve issues related to child custody, visitation, and child support. Both parents can work together in a collaborative environment to create a plan that works for their family and meets their children's best interests.